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Mewe-lair of cyber bullying

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Jana
After G plus was gone, lots of people been moved to Mewe. I decided to stay anonymous, sharing my poetry, music and art. I made a huge mistake during G plus era, I let someone dangerous(I found out too late) to get close to me. He harassed me for a long time, threathening me to publish my pics. And he did it. He made an account with my name and photo, and also was adding some faceless porn links. I wouldnt even know, but my friend made a screnshoots and showed me. I thought my heart will ran out of my chest. Finally, it happened. I was standing in front of my worst fears. It was about time to tell someone. My two online friends were standing by my side and we started to report every day, several times, and there was no respond. Then we started with emails to their official site. No one answered. One of my friends said that he will write to every news papers across all continents. One morning I woke up, and there was no more fake account,which was extremely compromising. I can't say its all behind, I still feel that bitter taste of betrayal, and humiliation, Just because I said NO to someone. We all have the rights to say NO. I find this amazing organisation today. I want to share my story and I want to help others. Adults can also be a target. When this happen, we dont need to be judged. All I needed was true help, people Who will report. Just, take care of Mewe. They don't respond easily even if you give them a proof. Even when I'm just thinking of that social platform, it makes my stomache twist, but I'm ready to be cybersmiller there and to help people, becasue I'm not the first, and certainly not the last. Last few days I'm talking more about this with my closer friends. Feeling of fear and shame put the chains around me. Cyber Bullying is 21st century desesase, more dangerous than various viruses, but I know, when people unité, it can be changed !
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Jules92
Hi Jana,

Because distributing personal or intimate images without permission is illegal in most countries, (Revenge Porn), it is highly likely that the site, or person uploading the images has removed them for fear of legal action. Even threatening to spread personal pics is now a crime anyone doing this is taking a big risk. If anything like this happens again you should go to the police. In fact you should take all the evidence you have and make an official report for attempted 'Revenge Porn', so if the same person contacts you, the Police will be able to follow up. If you need more advice you can contact the advisor team on [email protected]

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Jana

In reply to Jules92

Jules,
Thank you for replying and for your advices. First of all, I will tell you that police in my country do not respond. I had trouble at work, because I had higher position and I was doing all by the law, which brought me a trouble and serious threathening, and I went to police, but they didnt do anything. The man Who bullied me online is from USA, and when I tried to contact police of his state, by sending emails, I received notifications that my country cant reach them, we are blocked. He is not harrassing me since a few days, but I can't be sure things are done yet. If anything happens, I will contact the adress you gave me. I promised myself to be open about this, because as I said, I wasnt alone. Being here gives me an extra support.
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Jules92
Ok. That sounds quite complicated, but so far it seems that the person doing this has stopped. If they are in the U.S they may be aware that they are breaking the law and don't want to risk arrest. Just make sure all your photos/images etc are safe and not accessible to anyone online and all your passwords/security is up to date and secure. We are always here for you if you need us Jana. xx