as children we were taught to forgive, to say we are sorry, even if we did something bad we were taught to forgive, but does it really work?
in my experience i always forgive, could be the biggest argument or i hurt you in some way i will forgive that person, once that person is forgiven then things should go as normal right?
well like i said in my experience it never works for me, so many times i have forgiven people and what do i get in return? well i do get im sorry back, but in a few days i always and i mean always get the stab in the back technique, like after forgiveness then the person will say i dont want to be friend with you anymore and get out of my life, as you can see in my little world i dont know if forgiveness even works.
Sometimes i wonder if it works, like i believe in forgiveness and i want to move on, but yet it doesnt work in the long run, can a person still believe in forgiveness and move on and still have the same relationship as before?
so my question to you is, have you ever forgiven someone? and has the relationship changed, ruined or stay the same? and do you believe in forgiveness?